The Challenging Journey of Forgiveness

This is a difficult topic for many of us who struggle with deep-seated unforgiveness towards those who have caused us pain.

Was it a parent or a close loved one whom you believed you could trust? Perhaps it was an old friend or a spouse? Whether the hurt came from a lie, infidelity, abuse, betrayal, or gossip, it’s crucial to forgive—otherwise, the consequences can be severe.

While this may sound daunting, the reality is that the truth holds weight, and repercussions await those who refuse to forgive.

Forgiveness must be sincere, even in the presence of lingering pain. Without it, we risk not seeing God and remain stuck in a state of brokenness, worse than before. Unforgiveness is akin to drinking poison while hoping the other person suffers.

It can be destructive, and God will not hear your prayers. Mark 11:25-26 states:

"And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses. But if you do not forgive, neither will your Father in heaven forgive your trespasses."

So, if you are holding onto unforgiveness, take a moment to pray.

You know you’ve truly forgiven someone when the desire for revenge fades, and you can look them in the eye and treat them with love.

Forgiveness does not mean condoning their actions or minimizing the pain caused. It also doesn’t require you to welcome that person back into your life or trust them again. Remember, they are accountable to God. An unrepentant person will face the consequences of their sins on judgment day. Vengeance belongs to the Lord. Your role is to pray for their salvation and continue moving forward. Seek God’s will for your life and embrace the freedom to live fully.

Be blessed.